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20 июл 2022 20.07.2022

Дело не в вас! С вами не поздоровались? Вас не заметили? Обматерили на ровном месте... Не стоит расстраиваться. Про вас никто и не думал.

Другие люди слишком заняты собой, они обдумывают достаточно ли они уверены в себе, или вспоминают случай на работе, или просто тревожатся ...

Реакции других людей - это реакции "других" людей. У другого человека "свои" мысли и чувства, другая реальность, вас там нет. Вы конечно есть как внешний раздражитель, но какая реакция будет на вас, от вас не зависит... Так это не ваша реакция.

Надеюсь что написано понятно. Перечитайте ещё раз если нужно. На осознание этой истины ушло очень много времени, тонны обучения. Делюсь с удовольствием.

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